Invoke Your Inner Badass

Invoke Your Inner Badass

Invoke Your Inner Badass

It’s Saturday and I’m feeling freaking full of gratitude, peace and love.  Yes all the hippie qualities that I’m wildly obsessed with.  I got invites to parties and bars this weekend but I’m so loving the party at my house.  I’m at home with my kids, I meditated and did a total goddess yoga flow, filling my body with pure raw foods and working on creative content for my business.  That’s what gets my energy juices flowing.  I would rather zen out then hit up the hottest party.  I would rather explore and travel than spend my time at a club.  I feel like I have reached my inner badass and I’m so in love with her.  If you’re inner badass is party hopping then rock on sister.  That’s just not me anymore.  But don’t get me wrong I love a good glam party once in a while just not the club hopping type.

I spent 30 plus years trying to uncover and figure out my inner truth and authenticity.  I was afraid that if I let all that out I would be rejected and ridiculed.  Which is right, I was rejected and ridiculed by some when I started speaking my truth. In that process a funny thing happened.  The yucky vibers,  the people that held me back from experiencing my greatness, the toxic relationships and everything in between started dropping out of my life.  I lost  friends and family members during that time.  But those people were not my people.

As I reflect on my life and the people I’m surrounded with today intense gratitude fills my heart.  The inner circle of friends that I have are powerhouse, authentic, truth tellers, bad ass, empowering, world changer people.  I socialize with dreamers, entrepreneurs, entertainment industry influencers and bad ass every day people.  This did not come overnight.  It came from a process of mindset, behavior and environment changes.  I made a conscious decision I wanted something better and bigger than the mediocre that surrounded me.  If you want a change in your life, or if you’re tired of where you are now and know there’s more to life than this, I’m here to tell you there is!  It’s time to tap into your inner badass and let her roar.

My inner badass was a process and I’m still working on her everyday. This is about rising up and being absolutely in love and confident with who you are.  My biggest dream is to see all women tap into their God given power and create a life they are absolutely wildly in obsessed with.  So I’m going to share with you my 5 top tips to invoke the inner badass within you.  The same things that changed my life and put me on the path to success.

  1. Clean Sweep Your Inner Circle.  Have you heard the saying your future is determined by the 5 people you’re closest to?  Well it’s true!  If your inner circle consists of people who gossip, have no ambition, gold diggers aka women who want to mooch off others, complainers and naysayers then you’ve got some serious sweeping to do.  Start networking and making connections with people who are where you want to be.  I have the confidence to walk away from any person that gives me yucky vibes.  Like if you don’t make my energy radiate – peace out sucker. Spending time on negative energy suckers is a waste of time.  They will emotionally drain you and limit your ability to succeed. Be choosy of who you let into your life!  You have one beautiful life surround yourself with people who radiate with good vibes!
  2. Mindset is Everything.  Get yo’ mind right!  If you’re dwelling on limiting beliefs and thoughts then that’s where your life is going to stay.  Badass women know that their thoughts shape their life.  What are you telling yourself every single day?  Is it I’ll never get out of this situation or is it I have the power to create the life of my dreams.   Fill your life with positive, life giving, powerful thoughts with books, affirmations, podcasts, tv shows, and eliminate everything else. I only watch positive tv shows, I listen to powerful podcasts while getting ready, I have a Girl Boss music playlist that inspires me, my book shelf is full of empowerment self help books and my bathroom mirror is full of affirmations written in lipstick.  I soak that stuff in!   If you want to become a badass you have to make some changes worthy of badassery.  
  3. Gratitude.  Before I even get out of bed I think of 5 things I’m grateful for.  It immediately puts a smile on my face, creates a success mindset and sets my day. Instead of dreading the new day I’m ready to tackle it and do amazing things.  I also keep a gratitude journal and write down those 5 things while meditating.  Successful people practice gratitude! Practice an attitude of gratitude.  
  4. Meditation.  Meditation is a key part of my life and success.  I meditate every day, no exceptions.  I find a comfortable spot and meditate for at least 10 minutes.  i might light a candle, zen out on my yoga mat or just sit somewhere with no distractions.  My spiritual practice is the foundation of my life.  Get connected, pray, meditate, God designs things to happen beyond our wildest imagination and will guide us in the process. That daily 10 minutes of quiet will change your life.
  5. Inner and Outer Wellness.  Taking care of my body is also a spiritual practice.  Our bodies are temples housing some amazing stuff.  If we feel like crap how are we going to enjoy life and accomplish all that we want to?   What you put in your body comes out.  So if you’re filling up on all this processed junk it’s going to reflect in your appearance and how you feel.  I challenge you to eat complete raw unprocessed organic foods for 30 days.  The change will be shocking.  When I first tried this I did it for 21 days, lost 13 lbs, my energy level rocketed, my skin was glowing and I felt absolutely amazing.  I also have a daily yoga practice.  Yoga was life changing for me!  My stress levels diminished, my body was leaner and more flexible, sex life sky rocketed, back pain disappeared and it is the best natural high I’ve ever had.   

Ok goddesses, what changes are you going to make to tap into your inner badass?  I want to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

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Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Make Sure Your Pictures are On Point

Have you heard the saying first impressions are everything?  It’s true!  Especially in the world of online dating.  You literally have a few seconds to make a great first impression and have someone click on your profile.  Not only do you want people to click on your profile, you want the right people to click on your profile!

  1.  Your pictures need to tell a story of who you are.  Post photos that show your personality, your hobbies, what you like to do on the weekends.  Do you like rock climbing?  Post a photo of you climbing. It might spark a conversation with someone with similar interests and it shows you have an exciting life.
  2. Make sure the pictures are current!  There’s nothing worse than showing up to a date expecting someone 10 years younger.  Be truthful about who you are.  You don’t want someone to feel lied to, the date won’t go in your favor.
  3. Don’t show too much skin!  There’s nothing worse than seeing a picture of a man flexing in the mirror with his nasty toliet behind him. And ladies keep it classy!  If you’re showing too much boob in the profile picture you’re going to attract all kinds of sleezy men. Don’t be surprised when they show up to the date wanting one thing and I’m not talking about a committed relationship.
  4. Post 3-5 current pictures on your profile.  There’s no need to overload your profile with too much information.  Keep some of your life a mystery so there’s lots to talk about at the date!

Let me know how the above tips work for you in your online profile!  For more online dating tips check out my Online Dating Webinar here

XOXO, 

Amanda Rose 

Dating as a Single Parent

Dating as a Single Parent

Dating as a single parent can be tough! In this video I give you a few quick tips on how to date successfully as a single parent and take care of yourself. Be sure to subscribe for more great tips at www.datingboutiqueinc.com

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A Night Out on the Town!

A Night Out on the Town!

 

It’s the weekend! Do you have a date or night on the town planned?  Single & ready to mingle? Not sure what to wear?

First impressions are everything!  We literally have just a few seconds to make a great 1st impression.  Here’s a few tips on how to feel and look stunning for your date or night out?  Because remember you never know who you’ll meet while out & about.

~ Practice self care on a consistent basis.  When we look worn out and  like a hot mess on a daily basis it starts to show up on the outside and in our energy.  Do something every day to help you relax. Even if it’s just 10 minutes.  Take a hot bath, do 10 minutes of yoga, paint your nails or just go for a walk.  Daily self care is essential in feeling and looking our best when it comes time for the date.

~ Wear bright & flirty clothes!  Bright colors represent friendliness, fun and approachable.  I’m not saying go into your date with a bunch of neon colors.  We don’t want to blind our dates.  A cute pink blouse or blue dress is the perfect option for some bright options.

~ Make sure your clothes fit your body type.  Stay clear of large patterns or too tight clothes.  Keep your outfit classy not with cleavage falling out all over the place.  Classy can be incredibly sexy without showing too much skin.

~ Don’t over do it on your makeup.  Makeup can accentuate your features or make it appear that you just got off your day job as a clown.  Learn how to apply makeup and what colors look best on you.  Go to the makeup counters at the mall or contact one of our stylists.  We’d be happy to help you with some great makeup tips.

~ And last but definitely not least!  Love the body you’re in!  Self confidence is key in finding and creating a long lasting relationship.  When we’re confident in who we are we radiate with beauty.  Embrace those stretch marks and your curves.  You’re gorgeous girlfriend! Go out there and get ’em!

For additional tips and to schedule your own personal dating stylist session click here!  We have 20 minute sessions ready for you!  Each session consists of your personal dating stylist helping you pick out the best outfits in your closet or while you’re at the mall.  We’ll also give you some tips and tricks on your makeup and hair.  Make sure you’re date ready with our nationally recognized dating stylists. All for just $20! Schedule your session today! Click Here!

How To Love Unconditionally

How To Love Unconditionally

 

How To Love Unconditionally

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“To be brave is to love someone unconditionally without expecting anything in return.”  Madonna

Loving unconditionally is a commitment to love an imperfect person. Remember you are an imperfect person too. This type of love does not include revenge or purposely hurting someone. Loving unconditionally is scary and vulnerable. In reality love causes pain and hurt. To love someone with complete vulnerability that they can cause hurt in your life is scary. Being vulnerable while loving wholeheartedly is part of living fully. Love with your whole heart and mind. Be open to the magical experiences that love can bring even if it is just for a short moment in time. This type of love is worth it!

Loving unconditionally is the commitment at the end of the day to another human being that creates long lasting relationships. It includes sacrifice and commitment. However, this does not mean that you are to accept toxic or abusive behaviors. Sometimes we must love someone from a distance to protect ourselves.

How can you love unconditionally? Here are 5 ways to start your journey of loving unconditionally in your relationships.

1. Forgiveness

Unconditional love says you hurt me, you disappointed me but I forgive you anyways. I love you with your flaws and imperfections. Every human being is imperfect. We can not live up to false expectations of never making a mistake. To love unconditionally means to acknowledge the fact that everyone will fail. People will hurt us. It is our decision to continue to love this person or to walk away. Forgiveness is necessary to create healthy long term relationships. By no way am I saying that you should stay in a relationship that is abusive or unhealthy. However, even healthy life giving relationships will be faced with the power of forgiveness. Forgiveness is freeing especially for the one offering the forgiveness. It can be incredibly hard to forgive someone that has caused pain in our heart. However, holding on to a negative situation and letting it reside in your heart is toxic.

2. Self Love

To love others fully we must learn to love ourselves first. How we treat ourselves is a reflection in how we will let others treat us. Love yourself unconditionally. Acknowledge your weaknesses, your failures, your mistakes. Now rise up above all those and know how worthy you are of unconditional love. You are worthy of true healthy love and commitment.

3. Sacrifice

Unconditional love includes sacrifice. We sometimes sacrifice our own wants for the benefit of others. Take a mother and child relationship. This is one of the most beautiful forms of unconditional love and sacrifice. We may sacrifice a temporary want for the well being of our relationships. Do not sacrifice your self worth or respect.

4. Vulnerability

Being vulnerable can bring fear into our hearts. We fear being rejected or not understood. However, when we fully open our hearts and live with openness we let more love in. Vulnerability is saying I love you enough to be open and honest even though I fear rejection.
“Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage.
Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness.” Brene Brown

5. Wholeheartedness

Love with your whole heart. Love fully and passionately. Loving unconditionally means that you will continue to love this person with your whole heart not a piece here and there. Love them when they are in a bad mood, love them when they are sick or depressed, love them when they are unlovable. Share your heart with them so that they know the beautiful feelings that you have for them.

6. Courage

To love unconditionally takes courage. A whole lot of courage! Especially when our heart has been broken it takes courage to keep loving, to keep trying and to never give up. When we have experienced great heart break it is often hard to open our hearts again. Loving unconditionally is one of the bravest things you will ever do.

This article was featured on the Huffington Post!  Click here to go to the original article.