Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Be Flirty & Fun!

 

It’s Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 and today it’s all about being flirty and fun!  Online Dating doesn’t have to be boring or something you hate doing.  It actually can be a fun process to find some fabulous dates that eventually lead you to the “one.”  So today it’s time to makeover those online dating profiles and mindsets!

What if you start approaching online dating with fun and positivity?  Yes it can become discouraging to swipe right or left on hundreds of profiles without getting nothing but a dud.  It’s important to stay in a positive mindset during the dating process.  If we think negative about dating and the options out there then more negative experiences will attract themselves to us.  When we start to have fun with the dating process our energy is reflected in our dates.  I haven’t had a bad date since 2011 right after my divorce!  And to be honest my mindset sucked at the time! I also learned how to screen my dates better before agreeing to meet them.  It took months of re-programming how I approached dating and meeting new people.  I’ve never been on a bad date since.  Of course I went out with plenty of people that it just didn’t work out and we were not a good match but I always had fun in the process.

  1.  Be friendly and smile.  A person that is friendly and smiles raises their attraction level.  When you’re friendly online the potential date assumes you’ll be friendly and fun in person.  This ups your chances of moving the interaction from online to in person.
  2. Stay positive in your messages.  Don’t talk about how bad your past dating experiences have been.  A funny story here and there about a date gone wrong is ok but story after story of how dating sucks for you leaves a negative vibe.  If it sucks so bad for you the person reading the messages might wonder what you do to make it so bad.
  3. Be flirty.  The best flirting is respectful and fun.  Flirting is not sending questionable photos that you could regret later.  Give casual compliments, be a little sassy and talk about fun topics.  If you need more flirty tips check out our date coaching sessions where we teach you how to flirt successfully and not awkwardly.

So today I have a challenge for you!  Let off more positive and fun energy on your profile, in your messages, in your mindset and on your dates.  Let me know how the dating process changes for you.  And remember do this consistently, it takes practice and persistence! Don’t give up until you find the “one!”

Do you want more online dating tips?  Ready to make your profile stand out above the rest?  Want some catchy taglines, intros and more?  Check out my Become Your Own Matchmaker Online Dating Course HERE!

XOXO, 

Amanda Rose

Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Don’t Social Media Stalk

I felt like I had to put this out there because I don’t know how many times someone saw my online dating profile and then searched for my social media pages.  I think it’s totally okay to check out someone’s social media accounts, it gives an extra glimpse into who they are. However, I highly recommend not to message them on the online dating site and then on all their social media accounts and then message them again when they don’t respond… Yes I’ve had that happen on several occasions.  It looks creepy and gives out the wrong vibe.  I even had a couple guys get mad at me for not responding to them after I obviously didn’t swipe right on Tinder.  I’m like “I don’t even know you!”

So when it comes to online dating don’t cyber stalk.  If someone doesn’t respond to your first or second message or your right swipe don’t track them down on social media.  Cyber stalking looks desperate, is creepy and will not win you a date.  However it might win you a restraining order.  If you’re not getting a response from one person just move on to the next.  You’ll connect with the right person.  You can’t force a connection that’s not there.  Also keep yourself safe from cyber stalking.  If you have an erry feeling about someone delete them and don’t respond.

Also resist the urge to social media stalk someone new that you’re dating.  Why are you checking up on someone that you’re newly dating?  It’s easy to take things that you see on social media and over analyze what’s actually going on.  I’ve seen many people cause unnecessary drama in a new relationship over something they saw on social media.  Get to know someone for who they are not for what you see online.  Unless of course their social media is filled with pictures of them and their spouse or any other major red flags! Then you know just to run in the opposite direction.  Otherwise if they seem quite normal then let social media go for a while and get to know them.

Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Flirty & Fabulous Day 3 – Create a Catchy Intro!

Create a Catchy Intro!

How many times have you received a new message from a possible date with the words “Hi” “Hey” or “How are you?”  Probably too many times to count!  It’s time to spice it up! Do you want to stand out from the crowd or do you want to blend in with the rest of the millions of singles online?  That’s why I created this Become Your Own Matchmaker Online Dating Series so that you can date successfully and stand out above all the rest!

In today’s tip I’m going to share with you a few tips on how to create an introduction that stands out.  Remember you only have 7 seconds to make a great 1st impression and usually only have ONE chance to get someone to respond back.  So it’s important to make that introduction catchy, cute and NOT creepy!

When writing a stellar introduction it’s important to remember a few tricks.

  1. Use proper grammar.  Bad grammar online is a turn off.  Including texting slang and abbreviations.  Stay away from ur, u, wat, r, yo and everything in between.
  2. An introduction should not focus on physical compliments.  You might think it’s a nice to send compliments like “You’re gorgeous” or “Hey sexy” but it looks like you’re focusing on physical traits more than getting to know someone for who they are as a person.  Especially if you’re a guy sending this to a girl often it makes women feel a little creeped out because we wonder is that your pick up line for all girls.  Are you just focusing on someone for their looks or do you really want to get to know me as a person?
  3.  Don’t use the horrible H’s, the “Hi” “Hey” or “How are you?”  This is your time to get their attention.  Instead of the normal hi and how are you’s ask a creative question.  This will up your chances of them actually reading your message and getting a response.
  4. Most important be flirty & confident!  When you radiate with friendliness, fun and common respect (without using Hey Sexy) you’re more likely to get responses from high quality dates.

Want a list of creative introductions  and more ideas on how to be successful with online dating?  Sign up for my Become Your Own Matchmaker:  Online Dating Series Course HERE!

XOXO,

Amanda Rose 

A Night Out on the Town!

A Night Out on the Town!

 

It’s the weekend! Do you have a date or night on the town planned?  Single & ready to mingle? Not sure what to wear?

First impressions are everything!  We literally have just a few seconds to make a great 1st impression.  Here’s a few tips on how to feel and look stunning for your date or night out?  Because remember you never know who you’ll meet while out & about.

~ Practice self care on a consistent basis.  When we look worn out and  like a hot mess on a daily basis it starts to show up on the outside and in our energy.  Do something every day to help you relax. Even if it’s just 10 minutes.  Take a hot bath, do 10 minutes of yoga, paint your nails or just go for a walk.  Daily self care is essential in feeling and looking our best when it comes time for the date.

~ Wear bright & flirty clothes!  Bright colors represent friendliness, fun and approachable.  I’m not saying go into your date with a bunch of neon colors.  We don’t want to blind our dates.  A cute pink blouse or blue dress is the perfect option for some bright options.

~ Make sure your clothes fit your body type.  Stay clear of large patterns or too tight clothes.  Keep your outfit classy not with cleavage falling out all over the place.  Classy can be incredibly sexy without showing too much skin.

~ Don’t over do it on your makeup.  Makeup can accentuate your features or make it appear that you just got off your day job as a clown.  Learn how to apply makeup and what colors look best on you.  Go to the makeup counters at the mall or contact one of our stylists.  We’d be happy to help you with some great makeup tips.

~ And last but definitely not least!  Love the body you’re in!  Self confidence is key in finding and creating a long lasting relationship.  When we’re confident in who we are we radiate with beauty.  Embrace those stretch marks and your curves.  You’re gorgeous girlfriend! Go out there and get ’em!

For additional tips and to schedule your own personal dating stylist session click here!  We have 20 minute sessions ready for you!  Each session consists of your personal dating stylist helping you pick out the best outfits in your closet or while you’re at the mall.  We’ll also give you some tips and tricks on your makeup and hair.  Make sure you’re date ready with our nationally recognized dating stylists. All for just $20! Schedule your session today! Click Here!