6 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Ready to kick boring to the curb in your dating and sex life?  A relationship should stay exciting and interesting.  Of course you’ll have the everyday routine way of doing things but that doesn’t mean you have to lose all fun and games.  Even if the daily routine stays the same spice things up between the sheets!

Here’s 6 ways you can turn up the heat and put the spice back into your sex life.   

  1. Set the Scene

After a stressful day or week sometimes you just need to set the scene to get in the mood.  Light candles, take a bubble bath, and play music.  It’s the little things that can help us unwind and set the mood for a great night with your partner. 

 

  1.  Practice Yoga

Yoga is known to tone your body and reduce stress but it also ramps up your sex life. Yoga poses increase your libido by increasing circulation to the pelvic region.  It also opens up your body physically and increases flexibility.  Maybe even try some yoga poses in bed  or on the mat with your partner.  

 

  1.  Switch up Locations

The bedroom can get mundane.  Try new places in and out of the house to keep the excitement flowing.  Make a bucket list of new places and start checking one off at least once a month.  An impromptu meeting in the car, the beach, or the lake.  The possibilities are really endless.  Just make sure that there’s no one getting a peep show!

 

  1.  Try out the “Adult” only store

Sex needs updates and that means trying something new.  Too shy to walk into the store?  Check one out online and get everything shipped to you discreetly.  Try out The Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys  where you’ll have plenty of options to choose from and you’ll definitely learn how to spice things up.  Maybe take turns with your partner on choosing something new every month.  What’s great is there’s plenty of his and her options to choose from!  What better way to spice up your sex life with some fun and playful new experiences in the bedroom? 

 

  1.  Try Something New

Are you bored with the same sex positions?  Kama Sutra is an ancient Sanskrit guide to sexual techniques and behavior.  The guide explains various sexual positions but it also encourages a deeper emotional connection with your partner.  It’s definitely something worth exploring.  Watch how not only your sex life rockets but also a deep emotional connection. 

 

  1.  Speak your partner’s love language

 

And who says spicing up your sex life is all physical?  The best relationships have a deep emotional and mental connection too.  When you combine a great emotional, mental and physical connection to a relationship that’s when your sex life goes out the roof.  In Dr. Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages, he talks about how individuals respond and receive love.  When you meet your partner’s love language you deepen the bond between them.  Combine your partner’s love language with your sex life and I’m sure fireworks will go off between the sheets.

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XOXO,

Amanda Rose