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Don’t Social Media Stalk

Don’t Social Media Stalk

I felt like I had to put this out there because I don’t know how many times someone saw my online dating profile and then searched for my social media pages.  I think it’s totally okay to check out someone’s social media accounts, it gives an extra glimpse into who they are. However, I highly recommend not to message them on the online dating site and then on all their social media accounts and then message them again when they don’t respond… Yes I’ve had that happen on several occasions.  It looks creepy and gives out the wrong vibe.  I even had a couple guys get mad at me for not responding to them after I obviously didn’t swipe right on Tinder.  I’m like “I don’t even know you!” So when it comes to online dating don’t cyber stalk.  If someone doesn’t respond to your first or second message or your right swipe don’t track them down on social media.  Cyber stalking looks desperate, is creepy and will not win you a date.  However it might win you a restraining order.  If you’re not getting a response from one person just move on to the next.  You’ll connect with the right person.  You can’t force a connection that’s not there.  Also keep yourself safe from cyber stalking.  If you have an erry feeling about someone delete them and don’t respond. Also resist the urge to social media stalk someone new that you’re dating.  Why are you checking up on someone that you’re newly dating?  It’s easy to take things that you see on social media and over analyze what’s...
Flirty & Fabulous Day 3 – Create a Catchy Intro!

Flirty & Fabulous Day 3 – Create a Catchy Intro!

Create a Catchy Intro! How many times have you received a new message from a possible date with the words “Hi” “Hey” or “How are you?”  Probably too many times to count!  It’s time to spice it up! Do you want to stand out from the crowd or do you want to blend in with the rest of the millions of singles online?  That’s why I created this Become Your Own Matchmaker Online Dating Series so that you can date successfully and stand out above all the rest! In today’s tip I’m going to share with you a few tips on how to create an introduction that stands out.  Remember you only have 7 seconds to make a great 1st impression and usually only have ONE chance to get someone to respond back.  So it’s important to make that introduction catchy, cute and NOT creepy! When writing a stellar introduction it’s important to remember a few tricks. Use proper grammar.  Bad grammar online is a turn off.  Including texting slang and abbreviations.  Stay away from ur, u, wat, r, yo and everything in between. An introduction should not focus on physical compliments.  You might think it’s a nice to send compliments like “You’re gorgeous” or “Hey sexy” but it looks like you’re focusing on physical traits more than getting to know someone for who they are as a person.  Especially if you’re a guy sending this to a girl often it makes women feel a little creeped out because we wonder is that your pick up line for all girls.  Are you just focusing on someone for their looks...
Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 2 – Short & Simple

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 2 – Short & Simple

Keep it Short & Simple It’s Day 2 of Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating!  Today we are still focusing on 1st impressions.  When someone lands on your profile page you have less than 7 seconds to make a stellar first impression.  It’s important to keep your online dating profile sweet and simple.  You don’t want to bore your potential date before there’s even a date!  You want them to be intrigued and curious to learn more about you.  So the next Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Tip is to keep your profile sweet & simple! Here are a few tips to make a great first impression and get a potential dates attention.  What is your profile saying about you?  At first glance what does your profile represent?  Is it cute & catchy or does it have TOO much information?  It’s important to keep your profile to one or two paragraphs.  Leave room for some mystery.  If you tell your life story in your profile it can bore the reader and/or it leaves less to build an engaging conversation. Keep it Short.  Write a paragraph or two highlighting a few things about your personality and what you’re looking for.  Don’t give away the whole farm!  Focus on a few interesting facts about yourself that would want someone to learn more details about you. Keep it catchy & cute.  I read the cutest online profile from a guy that highlighted his interesting facts with pretend reviews.  For example a couple of the reviews said, “One of my favorite guys.” Mom   “Incredible rock climber and master ping pong player.” Dave -Best...
Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Make Sure Your Pictures are On Point Have you heard the saying first impressions are everything?  It’s true!  Especially in the world of online dating.  You literally have a few seconds to make a great first impression and have someone click on your profile.  Not only do you want people to click on your profile, you want the right people to click on your profile!  Your pictures need to tell a story of who you are.  Post photos that show your personality, your hobbies, what you like to do on the weekends.  Do you like rock climbing?  Post a photo of you climbing. It might spark a conversation with someone with similar interests and it shows you have an exciting life. Make sure the pictures are current!  There’s nothing worse than showing up to a date expecting someone 10 years younger.  Be truthful about who you are.  You don’t want someone to feel lied to, the date won’t go in your favor. Don’t show too much skin!  There’s nothing worse than seeing a picture of a man flexing in the mirror with his nasty toliet behind him. And ladies keep it classy!  If you’re showing too much boob in the profile picture you’re going to attract all kinds of sleezy men. Don’t be surprised when they show up to the date wanting one thing and I’m not talking about a committed relationship. Post 3-5 current pictures on your profile.  There’s no need to overload your profile with too much information.  Keep some of your life a mystery so there’s lots to talk about at the date! Let me know...

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