Love Meditations

Love Meditations

Love Meditations

I’m so excited to announce a new section on our website!  I’ve created a Love Meditation section just for you!

Meditation has made such a difference in my life and the life of others.  I highly believe in this practice.  Your thoughts shape your life.  When you start to change your limiting beliefs and replace them with positive life giving thoughts miracles begin to happen!  Meditation has become a part of my daily morning routine.  I encourage you to try it out and check out the free meditations I’ve created.  More will be posted soon so make sure you’re subscribed to our newsletter to get all the latest updates and freebies I send out!  Check out the first meditation below! Future meditations can be found HERE.

Love ya’ll!  XO

Amanda Rose

Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 – Flirty & Fun!

Be Flirty & Fun!

 

It’s Flirty and Fabulous Online Dating Day 5 and today it’s all about being flirty and fun!  Online Dating doesn’t have to be boring or something you hate doing.  It actually can be a fun process to find some fabulous dates that eventually lead you to the “one.”  So today it’s time to makeover those online dating profiles and mindsets!

What if you start approaching online dating with fun and positivity?  Yes it can become discouraging to swipe right or left on hundreds of profiles without getting nothing but a dud.  It’s important to stay in a positive mindset during the dating process.  If we think negative about dating and the options out there then more negative experiences will attract themselves to us.  When we start to have fun with the dating process our energy is reflected in our dates.  I haven’t had a bad date since 2011 right after my divorce!  And to be honest my mindset sucked at the time! I also learned how to screen my dates better before agreeing to meet them.  It took months of re-programming how I approached dating and meeting new people.  I’ve never been on a bad date since.  Of course I went out with plenty of people that it just didn’t work out and we were not a good match but I always had fun in the process.

  1.  Be friendly and smile.  A person that is friendly and smiles raises their attraction level.  When you’re friendly online the potential date assumes you’ll be friendly and fun in person.  This ups your chances of moving the interaction from online to in person.
  2. Stay positive in your messages.  Don’t talk about how bad your past dating experiences have been.  A funny story here and there about a date gone wrong is ok but story after story of how dating sucks for you leaves a negative vibe.  If it sucks so bad for you the person reading the messages might wonder what you do to make it so bad.
  3. Be flirty.  The best flirting is respectful and fun.  Flirting is not sending questionable photos that you could regret later.  Give casual compliments, be a little sassy and talk about fun topics.  If you need more flirty tips check out our date coaching sessions where we teach you how to flirt successfully and not awkwardly.

So today I have a challenge for you!  Let off more positive and fun energy on your profile, in your messages, in your mindset and on your dates.  Let me know how the dating process changes for you.  And remember do this consistently, it takes practice and persistence! Don’t give up until you find the “one!”

Do you want more online dating tips?  Ready to make your profile stand out above the rest?  Want some catchy taglines, intros and more?  Check out my Become Your Own Matchmaker Online Dating Course HERE!

XOXO, 

Amanda Rose

Don’t Social Media Stalk

Don’t Social Media Stalk

I felt like I had to put this out there because I don’t know how many times someone saw my online dating profile and then searched for my social media pages.  I think it’s totally okay to check out someone’s social media accounts, it gives an extra glimpse into who they are. However, I highly recommend not to message them on the online dating site and then on all their social media accounts and then message them again when they don’t respond… Yes I’ve had that happen on several occasions.  It looks creepy and gives out the wrong vibe.  I even had a couple guys get mad at me for not responding to them after I obviously didn’t swipe right on Tinder.  I’m like “I don’t even know you!”

So when it comes to online dating don’t cyber stalk.  If someone doesn’t respond to your first or second message or your right swipe don’t track them down on social media.  Cyber stalking looks desperate, is creepy and will not win you a date.  However it might win you a restraining order.  If you’re not getting a response from one person just move on to the next.  You’ll connect with the right person.  You can’t force a connection that’s not there.  Also keep yourself safe from cyber stalking.  If you have an erry feeling about someone delete them and don’t respond.

Also resist the urge to social media stalk someone new that you’re dating.  Why are you checking up on someone that you’re newly dating?  It’s easy to take things that you see on social media and over analyze what’s actually going on.  I’ve seen many people cause unnecessary drama in a new relationship over something they saw on social media.  Get to know someone for who they are not for what you see online.  Unless of course their social media is filled with pictures of them and their spouse or any other major red flags! Then you know just to run in the opposite direction.  Otherwise if they seem quite normal then let social media go for a while and get to know them.

Flirty & Fabulous Day 3 – Create a Catchy Intro!

Flirty & Fabulous Day 3 – Create a Catchy Intro!

Create a Catchy Intro!

How many times have you received a new message from a possible date with the words “Hi” “Hey” or “How are you?”  Probably too many times to count!  It’s time to spice it up! Do you want to stand out from the crowd or do you want to blend in with the rest of the millions of singles online?  That’s why I created this Become Your Own Matchmaker Online Dating Series so that you can date successfully and stand out above all the rest!

In today’s tip I’m going to share with you a few tips on how to create an introduction that stands out.  Remember you only have 7 seconds to make a great 1st impression and usually only have ONE chance to get someone to respond back.  So it’s important to make that introduction catchy, cute and NOT creepy!

When writing a stellar introduction it’s important to remember a few tricks.

  1. Use proper grammar.  Bad grammar online is a turn off.  Including texting slang and abbreviations.  Stay away from ur, u, wat, r, yo and everything in between.
  2. An introduction should not focus on physical compliments.  You might think it’s a nice to send compliments like “You’re gorgeous” or “Hey sexy” but it looks like you’re focusing on physical traits more than getting to know someone for who they are as a person.  Especially if you’re a guy sending this to a girl often it makes women feel a little creeped out because we wonder is that your pick up line for all girls.  Are you just focusing on someone for their looks or do you really want to get to know me as a person?
  3.  Don’t use the horrible H’s, the “Hi” “Hey” or “How are you?”  This is your time to get their attention.  Instead of the normal hi and how are you’s ask a creative question.  This will up your chances of them actually reading your message and getting a response.
  4. Most important be flirty & confident!  When you radiate with friendliness, fun and common respect (without using Hey Sexy) you’re more likely to get responses from high quality dates.

Want a list of creative introductions  and more ideas on how to be successful with online dating?  Sign up for my Become Your Own Matchmaker:  Online Dating Series Course HERE!

XOXO,

Amanda Rose 

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 2 – Short & Simple

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 2 – Short & Simple

Keep it Short & Simple

It’s Day 2 of Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating!  Today we are still focusing on 1st impressions.  When someone lands on your profile page you have less than 7 seconds to make a stellar first impression.  It’s important to keep your online dating profile sweet and simple.  You don’t want to bore your potential date before there’s even a date!  You want them to be intrigued and curious to learn more about you.  So the next Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Tip is to keep your profile sweet & simple!

Here are a few tips to make a great first impression and get a potential dates attention.

  1.  What is your profile saying about you?  At first glance what does your profile represent?  Is it cute & catchy or does it have TOO much information?  It’s important to keep your profile to one or two paragraphs.  Leave room for some mystery.  If you tell your life story in your profile it can bore the reader and/or it leaves less to build an engaging conversation.
  2. Keep it Short.  Write a paragraph or two highlighting a few things about your personality and what you’re looking for.  Don’t give away the whole farm!  Focus on a few interesting facts about yourself that would want someone to learn more details about you.
  3. Keep it catchy & cute.  I read the cutest online profile from a guy that highlighted his interesting facts with pretend reviews.  For example a couple of the reviews said, “One of my favorite guys.” Mom   “Incredible rock climber and master ping pong player.” Dave -Best friend since 2nd grade. It was different, catchy and cute! Do something out of the ordinary to spice up your profile and make it stand out.  Let your personality shine!
  4. No negativity.  And last but not least stay away from all forms of negativity on your profile.  Don’t talk about your ex, your past bad dating experiences or why you can’t believe you’re on online dating.  Keep your profile upbeat  and fun!  You’ll attract what you put out there.  No one likes a negative Nancy.  Remember the saying misery breeds company.  You don’t want a miserable date!

Let me know how putting these tips into place changes your dating game! Remember what is your profile saying about you?  If you’re not sure change it up if you’re not getting results and see what works for you.  Or take advantage of our online dating makeover package here!  We’ll get your profile standing out above the rest with our team of dating experts and specialists.  Stay tuned for more great online dating tips coming your way!

XOXO,

Amanda Rose

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Flirty & Fabulous Online Dating Day 1

Make Sure Your Pictures are On Point

Have you heard the saying first impressions are everything?  It’s true!  Especially in the world of online dating.  You literally have a few seconds to make a great first impression and have someone click on your profile.  Not only do you want people to click on your profile, you want the right people to click on your profile!

  1.  Your pictures need to tell a story of who you are.  Post photos that show your personality, your hobbies, what you like to do on the weekends.  Do you like rock climbing?  Post a photo of you climbing. It might spark a conversation with someone with similar interests and it shows you have an exciting life.
  2. Make sure the pictures are current!  There’s nothing worse than showing up to a date expecting someone 10 years younger.  Be truthful about who you are.  You don’t want someone to feel lied to, the date won’t go in your favor.
  3. Don’t show too much skin!  There’s nothing worse than seeing a picture of a man flexing in the mirror with his nasty toliet behind him. And ladies keep it classy!  If you’re showing too much boob in the profile picture you’re going to attract all kinds of sleezy men. Don’t be surprised when they show up to the date wanting one thing and I’m not talking about a committed relationship.
  4. Post 3-5 current pictures on your profile.  There’s no need to overload your profile with too much information.  Keep some of your life a mystery so there’s lots to talk about at the date!

Let me know how the above tips work for you in your online profile!  For more online dating tips check out my Online Dating Webinar here

XOXO, 

Amanda Rose 

Dating as a Single Parent

Dating as a Single Parent

Dating as a single parent can be tough! In this video I give you a few quick tips on how to date successfully as a single parent and take care of yourself. Be sure to subscribe for more great tips at www.datingboutiqueinc.com

Please post a comment on this video! I love hearing your thoughts!

A Night Out on the Town!

A Night Out on the Town!

 

It’s the weekend! Do you have a date or night on the town planned?  Single & ready to mingle? Not sure what to wear?

First impressions are everything!  We literally have just a few seconds to make a great 1st impression.  Here’s a few tips on how to feel and look stunning for your date or night out?  Because remember you never know who you’ll meet while out & about.

~ Practice self care on a consistent basis.  When we look worn out and  like a hot mess on a daily basis it starts to show up on the outside and in our energy.  Do something every day to help you relax. Even if it’s just 10 minutes.  Take a hot bath, do 10 minutes of yoga, paint your nails or just go for a walk.  Daily self care is essential in feeling and looking our best when it comes time for the date.

~ Wear bright & flirty clothes!  Bright colors represent friendliness, fun and approachable.  I’m not saying go into your date with a bunch of neon colors.  We don’t want to blind our dates.  A cute pink blouse or blue dress is the perfect option for some bright options.

~ Make sure your clothes fit your body type.  Stay clear of large patterns or too tight clothes.  Keep your outfit classy not with cleavage falling out all over the place.  Classy can be incredibly sexy without showing too much skin.

~ Don’t over do it on your makeup.  Makeup can accentuate your features or make it appear that you just got off your day job as a clown.  Learn how to apply makeup and what colors look best on you.  Go to the makeup counters at the mall or contact one of our stylists.  We’d be happy to help you with some great makeup tips.

~ And last but definitely not least!  Love the body you’re in!  Self confidence is key in finding and creating a long lasting relationship.  When we’re confident in who we are we radiate with beauty.  Embrace those stretch marks and your curves.  You’re gorgeous girlfriend! Go out there and get ’em!

For additional tips and to schedule your own personal dating stylist session click here!  We have 20 minute sessions ready for you!  Each session consists of your personal dating stylist helping you pick out the best outfits in your closet or while you’re at the mall.  We’ll also give you some tips and tricks on your makeup and hair.  Make sure you’re date ready with our nationally recognized dating stylists. All for just $20! Schedule your session today! Click Here!

Create a Breakup Breakthrough

Create a Breakup Breakthrough

breakupA breakup has the power to rock us to the core.  We can either let it knock us down or we can choose to rise from it.  Think of how amazing life would be if we decided to take heartbreak and make something beautiful out of it.  Yes heartbreak can be transformed into something life changing and beautiful.  Change can be painful but do you know what’s more painful?  Staying somewhere that we can’t fully live to our highest purpose.  Yes breakups hurt like hell but it hurts more when you stay somewhere you’re not respected or wanted. A breakup can ultimately wake us up to realize what we really deserve in a relationship.

A breakup and a relationship does not define you.  My wish is that every woman will see her great value and beauty.  We are each created for a beautiful purpose beyond what we can see in the pain.  Your worth is not in another person but within yourself.  It’s there girlfriend. Let’s make a change and create breakup breakthroughs.   Go grab your power, take it back and rock out your single life.

Ways to rock your singleness & create a breakup breakthrough

1.  Find your tribe.  I’m not talking about finding casual acquaintances.  Being around the wrong people can be the loneliest place in the world.  Make a conscious choice to surround yourself with the right people.  I’m talking about finding a group of people that are badass, soulful, and uplifting women.  Begin to work on becoming that type of woman.  As you do the universe will align to bring you other people that will support and encourage you.  These are the people that you will have the time of your life with.  I have the most amazing group of women around me. Some I have known for decades, some for just a couple months but each one I know that the divine connected us for a reason.  I have never enjoyed being single so much!  And I know a lot of it is because of these incredible ladies.

2.  Stop worrying about finding Mr. Right.  When we worry we let off negative energy and our total vibe is off.  Enjoy making new connections and meeting new people.  Focus on a new connection and not the long list of what you want in a partner.  A worried or bad attitude can block love from coming into your life. Let connections happen and flow freely.  You never know where a new connection will lead you.  Open your heart to new connections and experiences.

3.  Be you!  Fall in love with yourself.   We have more love to give when we are confident in ourselves.  When we can truly be comfortable alone with who we are then we can let the perfect person in.   Self confidence and authenticity is sexy!  Start each day with positive affirmations about who you want to be and who you want to attract into your life.

4.  Go on adventures and lots of them!  One of the most powerful lessons I learned is to not let someone stop you from feeling alive.  If someone brings negative energy to what makes you feel happy and alive then it’s time to re-evaluate that relationship.  Don’t let life pass you by because someone else doesn’t want you to enjoy it to the fullest.  Whoever comes into your life should have the same zest for life.  Sometimes we don’t need a plan to be adventurous.  Sometimes we just need to breathe, let go and trust in our divine destiny.

5.  Walk away from anything that no longer grows you or makes you happy.  Yes it can be damn hard walking away from the familiar.  We are often blinded by our comfort zone or of what “could” be.   We hang on too long to the toxic negative relationship or dwell on a breakup. Begin to walk away to create a new normal for your life.  You have the power within you to create a new beginning that is better than before.

6.  Find the beauty in the new beginning.  Breakups are often disguised as beautiful new beginnings. The happiness on the other side of this breakup is coming. Sometimes it takes purposeful steps in the right direction to get us there.  Start looking around you for all the good that is in your life despite the breakup.  Create positive life giving experiences to cultivate more beauty around you.

7.   Enjoy the journey of being single.  Seriously enjoy the journey!  There’s no better time to fully learn how to follow your passions and love yourself.  Don’t wait for someone to enjoy life with.  Do it now, in this moment.  The journey shapes us into the beautiful person we’re designed to be.  Don’t dwell on the past, don’t worry about the present or future.  Enjoy the journey and live fully in the moment.

Are you ready for a breakup breakthrough?   I challenge you to do one thing today that will bring happiness to your life.  Leave comments below on what you did to create happiness after a breakup and how you are rocking out your journey.