7 Rules of Online Dating

7 Rules of Online Dating

Are you frustrated with online dating?

Are you tired of all the ghosting? The conversations that get no where? The casual daters that seem to only want a hook up?

If you’re frustrated and not getting the results you want then a change needs to be made.

It’s time to attract high quality dates, date successfully and be consistent about finding love.  It’s time to step out of comfort zones, create the life you love and step into living your best life.

Online dating can be frustrating. There’s millions of singles dating online and sometimes finding a good date is like finding a needle in a haystack. But I promise there’s hope!

Let’s make 2018 the year that everything changes and you find love! Here’s 7 Rules of Online Dating you don’t want to miss.

1. Ditch the Dealbreakers

Of course we all have dealbreakers and you should! However when a profile is full of what you don’t want it automatically sends bad vibes out there. A profile full of all the negatives gives the impression that the person is negative. No one wants to date a negative Nancy. When you have a list of all the things you don’t want in your profile you’ll have some great dates swipe right on by. A potential date doesn’t want someone that seems impossible to please.

2. Honesty is Key

That 10 year old photo might only get you to the first date. If you want to get past the first date and find a relationship make sure you’re honest from the get go. Post current photos, don’t lie about your age, occupation or interests. Just don’t lie. Why would you want to ruin a good thing by lying? Find someone who likes you for who you are not someone who likes you based upon false beliefs.

3. Kick the 3 Day Rule to the Curb

Ask yourself do you want a relationship based on playing games or an authentic relationship. If you want something real don’t play the dating games. If you’re interested in someone text or call them. If they’re interested then they’ll respond. If you’re reading this then you’re probably an adult and the bottom line is you’re too old to be playing dating games. If you want a real authentic relationship then you have to act like it. Remember you attract what you are. Do you really want someone who plays games?

4. Classy is Sexy

There’s nothing worse than seeing a shirtless bathroom selfie or too much cleavage. Again you attract what you put out there. Do you want someone that respects you or just wants a hook up from anybody they can get their hands on? Think about what you’re attracting. Profile pictures that show too much skin attract less quality dates.

5. Leave Your Baggage Behind

A profile should be positive and engaging not filled with ex drama. Don’t talk about your ex or past relationships in your profile. This is an immediate turn off. It shows that you’re not over your past and you’ll bring it into the next relationship. Talk about who you are now and take the steps to heal from your past. I promise you’ll find better dates when you let the past go.

6. Be Consistent

Finding quality dates is not magic and they definitely don’t fall from a tree. It takes consistency and not giving up. Stay on the dating site for a few months. Respond to messages of those that you’re interested in and go on dates.

7. Stay Positive and Fun

What is your profile saying about you? Come up with a catchy and flirty profile that increases curiosity and engagement. Instead of the normal “I love to travel and the beach,” talk about your most interesting travel experience. Also be sure to stay positive, friendly and fun. The people who look more approachable get more swipes and dates! Make your profile stand out from the rest and write something different.

Now go right now and change up that profile, get online and start dating! Let’s make 2018 the best year for finding you love! Let me know how it goes in the comments below. For more dating advice check out my new course Meet Your Match Online Dating Bundle where you’ll learn all my secrets to successfully date online.

XOXO,

Amanda Rose

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Are you frustrated with online dating?
Are you tired of all the ghosting? The conversations that get no where? The casual daters that seem to only want a hook up?
If you’re frustrated and not getting the results you want then a change needs to be made.
It’s time to attract high quality dates, date successfully and be consistent about finding love.  It’s time to step out of comfort zones, create the life you love and step into living your best life.
Let’s make 2018 the year that everything changes and you find love!
Join me for a limited time!  We’ll walk through how to conquer online dating and find high quality dates. The price of the bundle will go up on Monday, December 4th, 2017.
XOXO, Amanda Rose

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What does Attracting a High Vibe Relationship Look Like?

What does Attracting a High Vibe Relationship Look Like?

What does attracting a high vibe relationship and

high quality man look like?

 You let go of past toxic dating & relationship patterns. You recognize what’s not working, what’s caused heartbreak and you do everything possible to heal and fix it.  You make the conscious decision to stop the bad dating cycle.

You recognize you’re the common denominator in past relationships. This was hard for me! After one failed relationship after another I had to figure out why I was choosing the wrong men. What was the common factor? The answer was ME! I was choosing bad dating patterns and relationships. This is where major self love, healing and reflection comes in.  We have to come face to face with our own inner issues and go through the process to create the best love possible.  


Once we begin to heal and practice self love we begin to attract others who are healed and will love us in a healthy manner. We treat others how to treat us. So if your self love is on fire and mindset is healthy regarding relationships you’ll start to attract high quality men that treat you the same.


Set intentions when dating. Date with purpose. Date men that exhibit amazing characteristics and values. Don’t focus on physical or materialistic aspects. Focus on the qualities that will create life long relationships. 


You quickly let go of those that are not high quality. Instead of wishing or trying to fix a man you let go because you know you deserve better. You pay attention to someone’s true colors the first time because you know that you can’t change someone. When you let go you make room for something better to come in. 


You seek constant growth individually and in a relationship. Comfort zones are the most dangerous places to be. 


You tune into your own femininity and beauty. When our vibe is high it shows through our smile, our words and it draws people in. Take time to do something that makes you feel beautiful today. Maybe a spa day, a bubble bath, a manicure…choose one thing and make it happen.


XO 💋

Amanda Rose

Are You Committed or Interested?

Are You Committed or Interested?

Here’s the thing if you don’t make the commitment in anything in life you’re not going to succeed.  That means failed relationships, failed businesses, failed health and failed dreams.  I’ve been there. I’ve made the half ass commitment and seen dreams disappear and relationships fail.  It wasn’t until recently that the half ass commitment mentality hit me. Since this is a page all about relationships I’ll relate it to that but we can half ass anything in life. 

You can’t have a successful relationship without committing to the process. You can’t half ass the relationship and expect great results. You have to put your whole ass in.  It’s the same with trying to find a relationship. I have people come to me wanting to use my services but they can’t even commit to a consultation call!  They don’t make the commitment to make the call time work with their schedule, they don’t show up for the call, the don’t show up to do the work. But they still complain about their dating life.  They wonder why they aren’t finding high quality commitment minded dates.  They wonder what they’re doing wrong.  They wonder why they keep falling into the same dating patterns with no success.  It’s because of the half ass mentality.  They are not showing up to do the work.  I can immediately see why it’s not working for them. They’re not committed they’re just interested. 

You have to become committed to the process in whatever you want in life. If you don’t you’ll see failure more than success.  You have to become committed to becoming the best version of yourself, identifying what isn’t working, making the change, being committed to the change and continue to move forward.  Commitment is not easy.  It comes with icky “holy moly that limiting behavior is still in me” constant growth ah ha moments.   

How are you going to show up in your dating life? Are you committed to finding someone and creating an amazing life giving relationship? Or are you just interested in the thought of dating, possibly finding someone?  

Do some deep soul searching when answering that question.  I had to recently.  I had the ah ha holy moly that limiting belief is still in me.  I immediately recognized that it was holding me back.  I was not committed to a process in a particular situation in my life.  And I hadn’t been for years because of past heartbreak.  When I recognized it, it was the most freeing feeling and it felt damn good to get it out there and begin the process of growth.

If you’re committed to the process of finding high quality dates and finding the one it’s time to get to work.  Men don’t magically fall from the trees.  Show up, become the best version of yourself and see the shift start to take place.

XOXO,

Amanda Rose

A Simple Mindset Shift to Make Your Date Amazing

A Simple Mindset Shift to Make Your Date Amazing

You’ve been hurt, your heart has been broken way too many times to count, and you’re stuck wondering are all men like this? Do you just wait for the ball to drop with each and every date?

The thing about dating is we’ve all had our heart broken. We’ve all experienced broken trust or crushed expectations in one form or the other. It sucks, it hurts and it can be damn hard to love and trust again. But the truth of it is…that new date is NOT your ex. He’s not the guy who broke your heart. He is a brand spankin new person with new qualities, new traits and new things to bring into your life.

And then this happens…we start to look for the red flags and what could possibly be wrong with this person before getting to know their heart? When we look for the bad before really getting to know someone we can immediately set up the relationship for failure. We start to nit pick qualities, we start to compare them to an ex, we look for ways that could stop a good thing before it even gets going.

But what if we completely changed how we approached our date? What if we focused on looking for a date’s strengths instead of immediately looking for things that could go wrong? If we approach a date with a positive mindset and look for the good qualities instead of focusing on the bad the whole dynamic changes. Instead of writing someone off immediately because of a superficial qualities we may find a hidden gem underneath it all.

I want to challenge you. On your next date look at the man across from you and ask yourself what is amazing about this person? Is he respectful to the waiter? Is he funny? Does he talk with passion about things significant to him?

Of course if the date is just horrible from the beginning and the date is totally disrespectful there’s no need to continue to pull out possible good qualities. Just don’t write off a potentially great date before it even starts.

When I was dating here’s what I would do…I would focus on what is amazing about this person? What can I learn about them? I would forget about all the things that could go wrong and instead focus on all the things that could possibly go right. When I made this simple mindset shift around the dating process my dating life completely changed. I not only apply this to my dating life but all my relationships. I have a deeper appreciation for the people that are in my life. I constantly look for how they’re amazing and why I’m so grateful that I have them in my life.

So I challenge you to walk into your next date thinking “what is amazing about this person?” I promise they’ll feel your positive energy, the date will be more relaxed and you’ll have a lot more fun.

XOXO,
Amanda Rose